What's upper world??
It's date night on my end of town! Yeah, you heard me the first time. I am engaged (we are planning a memorable wedding experience), but we also remember that it's important to keep the fire buring! So, dates are on the top of of our list.
We get dressed too>> Bamboo earrings (at least two pair) and 54.11's size 7 in girls. Just kidding...Well~ that would have worked a few years back. Serious note: come out of those jogging pants, his tee shirt, your scraf and mickey mouse slippers. Take off those funky gym shoes (guys), shape that cut up and cut those nails. Shux, bench press a lil bit before you hit the shower. Now we're ready!
The point is, sometimes folks loose touch with the simple stuff. We've gotten so wrapped up in the quick fixes, modern technology, reality tv, Diddy's white parties and Jeezy's black parties (LOL), you go with your girls and I'll go with my boys, etc that we forget what's really good!
The same thing that interested "you" in the beginning is what matters now. Hang on, don't go being super deep and literal. I am not suggesting that growth and "change" shouldn't be honored. We allllll embrace the big "C" word..that goes without saying. Let's just get back intouch with the simple stuff that flattered us, gave us butterflies, made us blush, made us wanna call everybody and tell em...the things that made us smile all day at work (and check our emails in between meetings), the things that made us simply shake our heads and laff because there weren't any words to explain!
Lets's go back to that place! Starting today- you don't need a private jet, nor do you need to buy the entire resturant for the evening (although that would be nice). Passionate gestures such as hugs, kisses, helping in the kitchen, greeting cards or a picnic in the back yard for two (put the kiddies to bed 1st) would do the job!
Do I smell a fire buring??? Yeah I do! That's the fire that you and your boo thang once had...yall getting it back- Whelp, I'm gonna through a few logs in my mine (keep it burning).
Peace sign xrs my eyes like John Travolta-
1 comment:
Love it. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married for 7. Its so easy to get lost in the roles of mother, student, and employee. At times is feels like working full time and going to school then there's not enough time to spend with the kids, so how do we fit "us" time in? We make time. And if that means taking a day off from work while the kids are in school then so be it. There is nothing more important than showing you kids what a normal, healthy, loving relationship is. So once a week, once a month whatever, where ever get that couple time in.
Thanks for this one Chyna Doll : )
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